Re-evaluation

I was wrong, restriction is not the answer. At a certain point in time you realize that there’s only 24 hours in a day and you have an unknown, finite number of days. One of my favorite song lyrics recently has been the following…

Because after all mans intellect and power, All you get is 650,000 hours if you’re lucky then you’re dead

I was trying to get some more freelance web design work and I was sleeping less, on the computer more - and is it worth it? I’ve been reevaluating - what’s important, what’s not. What do I want to fill those 24 hours up with each day? When I look back 10 years from now, what am I going to be happy I did - and what am I going to regret having done?

So, I decided to close up shop - which wasn’t hard to do, I just have one project that I’m finishing up. You can’t do everything right? And I have a lot of other little mini-projects in my real life that I’m going to be working on. I won’t be vague, here’s what I want to do…

Be a good employee

There’s a lot of fairytale stories about becoming a freelancing and working at home when you want - but the truth is, I’ve got a great job. And even better, I genuinely enjoy it, most of the time. My employer is great, my managers are great, the work is fulfilling… so what am I looking for? So I’m ready to really give 100% at my job - which I think is something that people forget to do.

Be a husband / father

Right now, I’m dieting for a natural bodybuilding contest, so I’m low on energy anyways… what’s left of my energy after work and working out - I want to give to my family. I want to be an energetic dad, I want to help do the dishes.

Give 100% towards my bodybuilding contest

I’m dieting for 29 weeks total and it’s hard. It’s hard mentally and physically. The least I can do is give it my best shot.

Personal finances

It seems like we’re never quite where we want to be. I want to spend some time and focus on our personal finances. Make sure we’re heading in the right direction to meet our goals.

Blog more

I want to blog more. When I first started this blog, I was only blogging about profound thoughts I had… but I want to blog more often and about more relaxed topics. Maybe even throw in a picture or a video now and then.

Enjoy real life

Ha - I said this on my web-site - and this one really isn’t related to web designing or not… but this has become a personal goal of mine lately - just enjoy real life. Get off the computer, get out of the screen… enjoy the little things.

In conclusion - none of these are really about freelancing or not, just reevaluating how I want my life to be. If you don’t like something about your life - change it.